Therapy for When Midlife Feels Messy

Mind + body support to help you explore the challenges—both expected and unexpected—that this stage of life brings.

Online therapy for individuals in Florida and Illinois

You’ve built a life you’re proud of—career, family, relationships. From the outside, it looks like success. And it is.

But lately, the stress has been piling up.

Between demands at work, changes in your family, or even shifts in your health, it feels like you’re constantly juggling everything. And while you’re managing to keep things moving, the weight of it all feels heavier than ever.

At the same time, old emotions and memories are creeping back in—things you thought you’d moved past. Maybe it’s tied to your upbringing, where independence and resilience were the focus, and you were taught to power through rather than pause and feel. Now, the pressure to hold it all together feels overwhelming, and those past wounds seem closer to the surface.

You notice it in your body: tension that won’t go away, exhaustion, or unexplainable physical symptoms like migraines or digestive issues.

You’ve always been strong and pushed through when things got hard, but lately, it feels like something deeper is asking for your attention..

It doesn’t have to stay this way.

With therapy that connects your mind and body, we’ll explore your thoughts, emotions, and the ways you’ve learned to cope—especially as life and priorities shift.

As a Gen Xer, you likely learned to “power through,” focusing on resilience and independence while ignoring what your body or emotions were telling you. But now, that approach might not feel as effective.

By making space for your emotions, body, and mind, we’ll create clarity and connection to help you navigate the challenges in front of you. Using a mind-body approach, including Somatic Experiencing, we’ll release stored stress and help you reconnect with what truly matters.

If it feels right, we can also integrate Safe and Sound Protocol to further support your nervous system, building resilience as you face life’s stressors.

Therapist in Fort Lauderdale

Hi, I’m Amy!

You’re carrying a lot—old emotions, physical strain, and the pressure of being the one everyone counts on. Slowing down and recognizing how much is piling up hasn’t always come naturally, but lately, it’s been harder to ignore.

The tension, exhaustion, or unsettled feelings might feel tied to changes in your life, like caregiving, family dynamics, or growing demands at work. Or maybe it’s more subtle—a nagging question about whether the way you’ve always handled things still works, or the return of old pain or emotions you thought you’d put to rest.

This is where I come in.

Together, we’ll create space to explore what’s coming up for you—in your body, emotions, and relationships. We’ll figure out what you need to feel more connected, more at ease, and ready to move forward in a way that feels right for you.

If this resonates, schedule a free 20-minute consultation today.

Common Issues and Concerns

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  • PTSD

  • Anxiety

  • Burnout

  • Chronic Pain

  • Chronic Illness

  • Life Transitions

  • Guilt and Shame

  • Complex Trauma

  • Family/Relationship Conflict

  • Emotional Reactivity/Overwhelm

  • Substance use and/or other addiction

Find Relief and Resilience with Therapy that Incorporates Mind and Body

Somatic Therapy, or therapy with a mind-body focus, offers a space to process what you’re going through now—and what you’ve been through before. It’s about creating room to explore your thoughts and feelings while also noticing how your body responds.

You decide how much the body is part of our work together, whether it’s simply paying attention to sensations as they arise or diving deeper with approaches like Somatic Experiencing or Safe and Sound Protocol.

This flexibility means we can go all in with body-based work, like SE or SSP, or incorporate gentle noticing of what’s happening in your body as part of the process. Together, we’ll explore what’s keeping you stuck and uncover what you need to feel more connected to yourself and what truly matters.

If you’re ready to take the next step, you can learn more about Somatic Therapy or schedule a free consultation today.

Therapy for Midlife Stress FAQs

  • I use a somatic, mind-body approach rooted in Somatic Experiencing (SE), with the option to incorporate the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) if it feels like a good fit. Together, we’ll work on tuning into your body’s signals, deactivating stress responses, and processing emotions in a way that feels supportive and grounding.

    This approach also creates space for complexity—the mix of emotions, challenges, and insights that often arise during midlife transitions. Whether it’s navigating the weight of current stressors or addressing past wounds and trauma that resurface during this time, our work will help you connect with yourself on a deeper level, offering both clarity and healing.

  • Yes! Since my approach often incorporates a mind-body focus that talk therapy typically doesn’t, the two can complement each other beautifully. Talk therapy helps you explore your thoughts, emotions, and past experiences on a mental level, while therapy with me works directly with your body’s stress responses and the patterns stored there. Combining the two can lead to deeper healing and long-lasting change, helping you feel more connected, grounded, and whole.

  • If you’re navigating midlife stress, physical tension, or a sense of disconnection and have found that traditional approaches haven’t fully helped, this work could be what you need. My approach addresses both the emotional and physical toll of stress, helping you understand what’s happening in your body and create meaningful change. You’ll gain tools and insights to feel more aligned with your life and better equipped to handle its challenges.

  • I currently offer virtual sessions only. Somatic therapy works just as well online because you’re in a space that feels familiar and safe. Being at home means you can settle into your favorite chair, have your pet nearby, or keep comforting items close, which can make you feel more at ease during our work together. Feeling safe and comfortable in your own space helps make the therapy more effective and allows us to really focus on your healing.

    Plus, online sessions make life easier—you don’t have to take time off work, deal with traffic, or worry about finding parking. It’s therapy that fits into your routine, with less stress and more convenience.

  • 55 minute sessions are $180.

    While I don’t accept insurance, I’m happy to provide receipts that you can submit to your insurance provider for possible reimbursement.

    If you're interested in incorporating the Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP) into your sessions, it’s available for an additional cost, which you can find listed on the SSP page. SSP provides 6 months of access to the app and email check-ins to ensure you’re supported throughout the process. We can discuss whether SSP might be a good fit for you during our consultation or as we work together.

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Get Help from a Midlife Stress Therapist in Fort Lauderdale

You’ve been carrying so much—balancing everything and everyone around you—but where do you fit in? It’s hard to slow down and tune in, especially when you’ve been focused on holding it all together. But creating space for yourself can change everything.

Therapy offers a place that’s yours, where you don’t have to have it all figured out. It’s a space to reflect, connect with yourself, and begin to understand what’s underneath it all.

When there’s room for your thoughts, feelings, and what your body is holding, you can start to move forward in a way that feels aligned with your needsand still honors the people and responsibilities that matter most to you.

If this feels like the next step, schedule a free 20-minute consultation today.

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